Christiane Northrup,
MD,
obstetrician/gynecologist,
known internationally for her visionary,
empowering approach to
women's health and
wellness. Author
of several books,
including the
bestseller, Women's
Bodies, Women's Wisdom,
and host of
five
successful PBS
television specials. Her work has been
featured on The Oprah
Winfrey show, The
View, the Today
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HOW MALE CIRCUMCISION MAY BE
AFFECTING YOUR LOVE LIFE |
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Circumcision,
the surgical removal of the male
foreskin usually
during the first few days after
birth, is an emotionally charged
subject that most people are
reluctant to discuss openly, let
alone objectively. However,
in the spirit of
science and compassion, I urge you
to read this article with an open
mind.
It may well change the
entire way you view circumcision.
The
Pleasures of Natural Sex
I've always felt that the male
foreskin, one of most richly innervated and hyperelastic
pieces of tissue in the male body,
is there for a reason.
However, until
recently, I didn't know exactly
what
that reason was. But now,
thanks to Kristen O'Hara's
well-researched book,
Sex as Nature Intended It,
I finally understand the reasons
for the design of the penis and
foreskin and how this design
ensures optimal penile function,
including this organ's ability to
satisfy the female sexually.
Most American women have not
personally experienced the
sensation of sex with an
uncircumcised man because the
majority of men in this country,
especially those born before 1980,
have been circumcised. But
Kristen O'Hara's long-ago affair
with an uncircumcised man was the
spark that touched off years of
research, the result of which is
her eye-opening book.
Consider the following
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The
primary pleasure zones
of
the natural
(uncircumcised)
penis are
located in the Upper
Penis, which includes the penis
head, ridged band,
foreskin's
inner lining, and
the frenulum—
the hinge of
skin that connects
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When a male
is circumcised,
some of the most
erotically
sensitive areas of the
penis
are removed.
Gone is the
foreskin,
which normally covers
the
head of the penis (glans),
and
some or all of the frenulum.
Frenulum contains thousands |
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of
nerves sensitive to fine touch.
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The glans was designed by nature
to be covered all the time except
during sexual activity. Upon
erection, both foreskin layers
unfold onto the upper penile
shaft, leaving the highly
innervated frenulum, glans, and
inner lining exposed and readied
for sexual activity. This is
one of reasons why the penile tip
is the focus of sexual excitement.
New scientific evidence shows
that highly erogenous tissue
equivalent to the female clitoris
is located in the core of the
penis, beneath the corona (the
hook-like head of the penis)
and coronal tip. This
sensitive tissue extends all the
way down the length of the penile
shaft to the pubic mound, where it
branches and continues into the
pelvis and onto the pelvic bone in
a manner analogous to the anatomy
of the female clitoris. Though the
penis contains nerves that are
sexually excited by pressure, its
tip contains the greatest density
of these nerves and is therefore
the most sexually responsive part,
just as the tip of the clitoris is
the most sensitive part. And
like the tip of the female
clitoris, the tip of the penis is
sexually stimulated by the
pleasurable sensations created by
the massaging actions of
the movement of the foreskin upon
it during intercourse.
During intercourse, these
exquisitely sensitive nerves of
the upper penis both excite a man
sexually and control the rhythm of
penile thrusting. "When the
natural penis thrusts inward, the
vaginal walls brush against the
erotically sensitive nerves of the glans, the foreskin's inner
lining, and the frenulum, causing
these nerves to fire off
sensations of pleasure;" writes
O'Hara. "The inward thrust
of the penis keeps these pleasure
sensations ongoing, but after
these nerves have fired, the penis
senses a reduction in pleasurable
feelings, so it stops its inward
thrust and begins its outward
stroke in search of stronger
sensations.
"During the outward stroke,
the
foreskin's outer layer slides
forward to cloak the nerves of its
inner lining, while the inner
lining itself covers the frenulum"
she continues. "Once
covered, these nerves are allowed
to rest from stimulation so
on the next inward thrust,
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As the foreskin moves
forward on the shaft, it
bunches up behind the
coronal ridge, and may
sometimes roll forward over
the corona, depending on the
length of the stroke. This applies
pressure to the interior tissue of
the corona and coronal ridge where
nerves that are excited by
pressure send a wave of sexual
excitement throughout the upper
penis.
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The natural penis
receives pleasure sensations from
one set of sensory nerves on the
inward thrust and a different set
of nerves on the outward stroke.
It can maintain a continuous
stream of highly pleasurable
sensations by maintaining the
right rhythm"
And intriguingly, because the
area of sexual sensation is so
localized in the tip, the natural penis
only has to travel a short
distance to excite one set of
nerves or another. In other
words,
it doesn't have to withdraw
very far to receive pleasure on
the outward stroke.
This
allows the natural penis to stay deep
inside the vagina, keeping the
man's pubic mound in close and
frequent contact with a woman's
clitoral area, which increases her
pleasure and a sense of closeness.
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As part of the research for her
book, Ms. O'Hara surveyed
approximately 150 women—enough to
make the study statistically
reliable. Here's how one
survey respondent described sex
with a natural partner:
"Sex with a natural partner has
been to me like the gentle rhythm
of a peaceful but powerful
ocean—waves build, then subside
and soothe. It felt so
natural, as if it were filling a
deep need within me, not
necessarily for the act of sex,
but more in order to experience
the rhythm of a man and woman as
they were created to respond to
each other."
The
Sexual Consequences of Male
Circumcision
After circumcision, the
exposed head of the penis thickens
like
a callus and becomes less
sensitive.
And because
erotically sensitive areas of the
penis have been removed, the
circumcised penis must thrust more
vigorously with a much
longer stroke in order to reach
orgasm through stimulating the
less sensitive penile shaft. In
her study of women who have had
sexual experiences with both
natural and circumcised men,
O'Hara notes that respondents
overwhelmingly concurred that the
mechanics of coitus were different
for the two groups of men.
Seventy-three percent of the women
reported that circumcised men
tended to thrust harder, using
elongated strokes;
while
uncircumcised men tended to thrust
more gently, to have shorter
strokes, and to maintain more
contact between the mons pubis and
clitoris.
O'Hara's
research makes the following
sexual comparisons between the
natural and circumcised penis.
The natural penis may be
more comfortable for the
vagina than the circumcised
penis. The coronal ridge of
the natural penis is more
flexible; O'Hara likens it
to the resiliency of Jell-O.
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The
circumcised penile head is
considerably harder
—overly firm and compacted
like an unripe tomato.
This
is because circumcision cuts
away 33 to 50 percent of
penile skin. As
a result, the skin of the
circumcised penile shaft can
get stretched so tightly
during an erection that it
pulls down on the skin
covering the glans,
compressing the tissue of
the penis head. The
abnormally hardened coronal
ridge can then be very
uncomfortable to vaginal
tissue during intercourse.
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Women
sometimes experience a scraping
feeling with each outward stroke
of the circumcised penis
and even report discomfort,
after intercourse or even the next
day. The brain makes
pain-relieving endorphins that may
partially block any discomfort
during intercourse itself.
As a
gynecologist, I can tell you that
painful intercourse is a very
common symptom among American
women, many of whom blame
themselves or who feel that
something is wrong with their
sexual response.
The give of the natural penis, by
contrast, allows for more bend and
flex of the organ in the vagina,
adding to a woman's pleasure and
comfort. The abundant skin of the
natural penile shaft further
cushions the force of the coronal
ridge in the vagina.
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In addition, the
mobile skin of
the penis is
"grasped" by the
ridges of the
vaginal mucosa and held in place.
The bunching and unbunching of
penile skin during intercourse
enhances a man's pleasure, but it
also excites the woman.
As one of O'Hara's survey
respondents reported:
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"What I noticed was that my
natural man got a lot of
pleasure from deliberate,
slow insertion and backing
out because his foreskin
would fold back and forth,
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Circumcised sex may cause the
vagina to abnormally tense up and
decrease its lubrication.
Women report
more problems with lubrication
when having sex with circumcised
men, possibly because
of irritation from the harder tip
and involuntary tensing against
it, and also because the longer
stroke length tends to remove
lubrication from the vagina.
Often an artificial lubricant is
necessary.
Intercourse may also be painful
for the circumcised man because
his penis scrapes against the
ribbed structure of tensed-up
vaginal walls and becomes over
stimulated from constant pressure.
The degree of discomfort, if any,
will depend upon the tightness of
the man's shaft skin, the vigor of
his thrusting, the duration of
intercourse, and the amount of
lubrication.
Circumcision may cause a man to
work harder to achieve orgasm,
resulting in emotional and
physical distancing from his
partner. When a circumcised
man has sex, he may have to
concentrate intensely on the
erotic sensations he is receiving
while simultaneously blocking out
any uncomfortable sensations. Survey respondents often reported
that their circumcised partners
seemed to have to work too hard to
achieve orgasm. And because
of the erotic tissue that has been
removed, he can't enjoy the
sensations leading up to orgasm or
his partner's responses.
O'Hara makes a compelling
argument that circumcised
intercourse may frustrate the
primordial subconscious that seems
to know "real sex ain't this way." She also suggests that
each circumcised
sex experience has the
potential to buildup negative
memory imprints so that over time,
repeated sexual encounters with
the same partner may lead to
negative feelings between the two
that carry over into everyday
life. If this sounds like an
extraordinary leap, consider the
question that O'Hara asks in her
book: "Other things being equal,
which couple is more likely to
stay together—one enjoying
delicious, satisfying sex or one
whose sexual pleasure is being
compromised in many ways?"
The
Solution: Foreskin Restoration
Fortunately, there are
alternatives for men (and their
partners) who want to experience
natural sex. This quiet
revolution, called Foreskin
Restoration, can be achieved
through plastic surgery or non
surgical methods. The latter
work on the principle that skin
stretches and grows under pressure
just like abdominal skin when it
stretches to accommodate
pregnancy. According to
O'Hara, whose husband stretched
his foreskin over the course of
several years, their sex life is
better than ever, and neither can
believe the difference that
foreskin restoration has made.
Many other men and women attest to
this improvement as well.
For more information, the
following resources can be
helpful.
National Organization of
Restoring Men (NORM) www.norm.org For
an initial information packet,
send $5 to cover printing and
postage. For information on
joining the support network or to
learn the location of regional
NORM groups send a request with a
S.A.S.E. to R. Wayne Griffiths,
3205 Northwood Dr. #209, Concord,
CA 94520-4506 Tel: (925) 827-4077
The Joy of Uncircumcising!
A restoration manual and more, by
Jim Bigelow, Ph.D. (Contact UNCIRC,
POB 52138, Pacific Grove, CA
93950).
Restore Yourself! A Handy
Kit for Circumcised Men from
NOCIRC of Michigan:
www.RestoreYourself.com Address: P.O. Box 333, Birmingham,
MI 48012Tel: (248) 642-5703
Non-Surgical Foreskin
Restoration, a Canadian Web site
with a great deal of information:
http://infocirc.org/top.htm
Foreskin restoration internet
discussion groups:
http://foreskinrestorationchat.info
http://www.foreskin-restoration.net/forum
A Risky,
Painful, and Unnecessary Procedure
The
sad truth is that throughout most
of the 20th century, the American
medical community has focused on
finding reasons to remove the
foreskin of newborn males instead
of acknowledging Mother Nature's
wisdom in including this highly
sensitive tissue. Happily,
more and more individuals are
questioning circumcision's
necessity and acknowledging its
potential harm.
Since 1980, the
national circumcision rate has
dropped by 30 percent, and an
increasing number of physicians
are finding the courage to refuse
to perform the procedure.
This is precisely what happened in
England, a nation formerly
obsessed with circumcision.
In the 1940s, following the
release of information that
supported leaving male babies
fully intact, England's
circumcision rate plummeted almost
overnight to less than I percent.
Similar information is beginning
to gain ground here in the United
States, so I'd like to share it
with you.
To
start with, babies feel pain the
same way adults do. But the
prevailing wisdom at medical
schools has long been that
newborns can't feel pain and
therefore don't experience it
during their circumcisions. When I
was a medical student, this is
what I heard from my professors as
well, although common sense told
me it wasn't true. I watched
placid newborns begin to scream
and gasp in pain as the
circumcision procedure began.
Fortunately, it is finally
accepted as a medical fact that
circumcision is extraordinarily
painful for newborns, who are born
with full nocioceptive (pain
sensing) ability.
Furthermore, routine newborn
circumcision has no health
benefit. Though a wide
variety of health advantages have
been attributed to
circumcision—decreases in the
incidence of cervical cancer,
AIDS, sexually transmitted
diseases, and male urinary tract
infection—the most up-to-date
research has refuted all these
justifications. In fact,
the
American Academy of Pediatrics
issued a policy statement in 1999
saying there is not sufficient
scientific data to recommend
routine newborn circumcision.
Given this, the number of
insurance companies willing to pay
for the procedure is also
decreasing.
Though circumcision is relatively
easy to perform, like any surgical
procedure it has risks. The most
common complication is hemorrhage,
which is reported in as many as 2
percent of cases. Though rare,
more disastrous complications can
and do occur: "degloving" of the
penile skin, which requires skin
grafts and results in loss of
sensation; destruction of the
penis; and death from hemorrhage
or infection.
Because there are no proven
benefits for the procedure in the
first place, these complications
are all the more tragic. As
respected obstetrician and
gynecologist George Denniston
points out, "Circumcision violates
the first tenet of medical
practice: 'first, do no harm.'
According to modern medical
ethics, parents do not have the
right to consent to a procedure
that is not in their son's best
interest. The removal of a
normal, important part of the male
sexual organ is not in their son's
best interest.' "
Uncircumcised is the Norm
The
vast majority of the world's men,
including most Europeans and
Scandinavians, are uncircumcised.
And before 1900, circumcision was
virtually non-existent in the
United States as well—except for
Jewish and Muslim people, who've
been performing circumcisions for
hundreds of years for religious
reasons.
Believe it or not, circumcision
was introduced in English-speaking
countries in the late 1800s to
control or prevent masturbation,
similar to the way that female
circumcision was promoted and
continues to be advocated in some
Muslim and African countries to
control women's sexuality.
As the absurdity of this position
became apparent, new
justifications, such as the
prevention of cervical and penile
cancers, received the blessing of
the medical establishment.
But these are justifications that
science has been unable to
support. Nor is there any
scientific proof that circumcision
prevents sexually transmitted
diseases.
Also contrary to popular belief,
the uncircumcised penis requires
no special care. Many
parents get hung up about how to
"clean" the uncircumcised penis in
an infant. Some are even told to
retract the foreskin forcibly.
This can cause pain and scarring,
and it isn't necessary. The
foreskin often does not retract
naturally until a child is
older—sometimes not until he is a
teenager—but a boy can easily
stretch and retract his foreskin
gently over several months' time.
What
about Religious Circumcision?
I am not Jewish (or
Muslim), but I can assure you that
many Jews are rethinking
circumcision. (I do not have any
information about Muslims).
As a matter of fact, two of the
most well-researched and eloquent
books on the harmful nature of
circumcision have been written by
Jewish men. For more
information, I urge you to read
Circumcision: The Hidden Trauma
by Ronald Goldman, Ph.D.,
(Vanguard, 1997) and
Circumcision: An American Health
Fallacy by Edward
Wallerstein (Springer
Publishing, 1980).
For more information on the
Jewish perspective, Contact:
Circumcision Resource Center,
Ronald Goldman, Ph.D, PO. Box 232
Boston, MA 02133, Tel.
617-523-0088, Web resource:
http://www.jewishcircumcision.org
I hope this has been an
eye-opening article. I
realize that circumcision may not
have been the topic uppermost on
your mind before you opened your
issue this month, but it's my
mission to bring you timely,
life-enhancing information. My
hope is that you'll weigh it and
then make the wisest choice for
yourself and your family.
Christiane
Northrup, M.D. Copyright
©
2004