Woman Married to (or in a Relationship with)  

a Man with a Circumcised Penis

As a woman married to (or in a relationship with) a circumcised man, you can expect some wonderful things from this book, for it brings the promise of greater overall happiness between the sheets—and pages—of your life.  Gentler sex, more sensuous sex, more satisfying sex, increased attainment of orgasm from intercourse, can be yours—giving you new insight into the joy that lovemaking can bring when nature is on your side.

Not that long ago, women were thought to be lacking in capacity for sexual enjoyment. But in the early '60s, sexual researchers Masters and Johnson proved that women are anatomically and physiologically capable of experiencing sexual pleasure and achieving orgasm just like men.  And yet, there must be something amiss, because the popular press reports that millions of American women fake orgasm during intercourse, for they are often unable to achieve them.  This is, in general, an indication that women are not experiencing the level of pleasure and arousal necessary to bring on orgasm.  For too many women, the lure of would-be delicious sex often turns out to be a disappointing experience that leaves them hungering for something more.  And for some women, active intercourse thrusting can even cause discomfort or pain.  The following comments taken from the book, Sex As Nature Intended It, show the frustration, disappointment, and discomfort women can experience:

"Sometimes it's too much work for too little reward.  When it's over, I think to myself, 'Thank God he finally came!' "

"Sometimes, I get sore after sex.  Yes, I would sometimes classify it as pain ."

"I often experienced discomfort with my husband, at which point I would usually try to hurry him along, first physically and if that didn't work, verbally ."

"I had a feeling of sadness, lack of satisfaction, emptiness, and frustration after intercourse with my husband.  I never remember feeling like a whole woman during my marriage."

"My husband was totally engrossed in satisfying his own sexual needs.  He pounded and banged as if he were having intercourse with a non-feeling person."

The above comments are about "circumcised intercourse." They were expressed by women who share a special vantage point—they have all had the comparative experience of sexual intercourse with both circumcised and uncircumcised men.  These women participated in the book's unique survey of such women, and it is one of the keynotes of the book.  It was the first survey ever conducted on this topic, and it unearthed many startling revelations.

One of the most important findings was that women reported dramatic differences between "circumcised intercourse" (man has a circumcised penis) and "natural intercourse" (man has a natural penis, as it's provided by nature at birth, uncircumcised).

The stunning bottom line of the survey is: Women overwhelmingly preferred sex with the natural penis by a margin of  9 to 1.  (Considering that these women had significantly more circumcised partners than natural partners, one would think they would prefer the type of penis they were most familiar with, but such was not the case.) Moreover—and this is astonishing—women were almost 5 times likelier to achieve vaginal orgasm when the man had a natural, uncircumcised penis.

"Could this really be true?" you ask! 

• Could the surgically altered circumcised penis lessen a woman's capability for achieving vaginal orgasm?
  

• Could it could cause her various degrees of displeasure, discomfort, or pain during intercourse?
  

• Could the shortcomings and disappointments of circumcised sex lessen a woman's passion and desire for her mate?

Well, there's good news, and bad news.  The bad news is that the answer to all these questions is "yes." The good news is that the opening page of this website offered a solution.  And there is—foreskin restoration (loosely defined as "regrowing" the foreskin using various non-surgical techniques that expand and extend the penile shaft skin).  This topic—though it may seem radical—will be discussed in a minute.

But first, it should interest you to know that most of the world's men (approximately 80%) are not circumcised.  America is one of the few countries that practices routine infant circumcision.  Circumcision is not the standard in the world; it is the exception.

The following "joke" may help to underscore the difference a natural penis can make to a woman:

What does the French woman say after making love? "Oo La La!" What does the Italian woman say? "Mama Mia!" What does the American woman say? "Jim, the ceiling needs painting."  Why such a difference? Because European men are not usually circumcised.

Sex As Nature Intended It is written to women—in particular, to you—an American woman married to (or in a relationship with) a circumcised man.  Kristen O'Hara, the author, talks to you as an intimate friend would over lunch.  She leans toward you, drops her voice, and whispers, "Let me tell you a big secret—the key to a woman's sexual ecstasy is the foreskin of the penis."

Until you've had sex with a whole, fully functioning, softly-stiff natural penis, you haven't really had sex.  You only think you have.  In actuality, you've only had circumcised sex.  As a woman who's experienced both types of sex, allow me to say the words women will later come to speak for themselves: Sex with a circumcised penis and sex with a uncircumcised penis are as different as night and day.  They are as different as viewing the harsh, blinding light of the sun at noon vs. the softer, reflected light of the romantic midnight moon.

The specialized functions of the foreskin allow a man and woman to experience intercourse in accordance with nature's sexual plan—tenderly, delicately, and lovingly—as they mutually surrender to an enrapturing ecstasy that binds them so close it's as if the two were one.  The protective functions of the foreskin give the natural penis head a softly-stiff giveability that makes it feel exquisitely delicious as it gently caresses the vaginal walls.  This, in combination with the foreskin itself—the penis's only moving part—enables the sex act to be gentle, softly-smooth, and spellbindingly sensuous—unlike anything you've ever felt before.

Could the foreskin really make that much of a difference during intercourse? Yes, yes, oohh yes, the natural penis make a superlative difference in the lovemaking experience.  Whatever pleasure you may or may not be experiencing from intercourse now—only one thing is certain: When the foreskin is added, things will only get better—unbelievably better, indescribably better.  Beyond your highest expectations.  Here is a comment from a survey respondent:

"I experienced a huge difference between circumcised and uncircumcised men.  Until I met my natural husband, I thought that the rough, dry circumcised penis was the way it was supposed to be.  WOW!  I had been missing genuine, naturally satisfying sex and now have the utmost appreciation for the 'real thing.' There is such a remarkable difference, in all aspects of sex—from foreplay and fellatio to intercourse. In retrospect, I now consider the circumcised penis as a sort of unreal 'device' that made intercourse a not very pleasing experience that often left me sore.  I now have orgasms that were very rare with circumcised men."

Shere Hite, author of the famous book, The Hite Report, of the mid-70s, surveyed 3,000 women on various aspects of their sexuality.  One of the astounding findings of this survey was that 70% OF THESE WOMEN COULD NOT ORGASM REGULARLY FROM INTERCOURSE.  That figure—70%—represents the approximate percentage of circumcised men in the adult population at that time (men born before the mid-50s).

During the 20th century in America, circumcision was performed routinely by the medical community, principally because it was thought to have medical benefits—benefits that have now been discredited. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recently conducted a two-year intensive review of the medical literature on circumcision from the last 40 years.  As a result, they issued a policy statement in March, 1999, declaring that existing scientific evidence demonstrating potential medical benefits of newborn male circumcision "are not sufficient to recommend routine neonatal [infant] circumcision." Subsequently, in August, 2000, the American Medical Association (AMA), the largest medical association in America, posted a statement on their website concurring with the AAP's findings, saying routine infant circumcision is "non-therapeutic" and unnecessary.  Because of this, the already declining circumcision rate in America is sure to continue spiraling downward.  Non-circumcision is simply an idea whose time has come.

This revolutionary book presents irrefutable evidence that the foreskin plays an inherent role in adult sexuality.  It demonstrates conclusively that when the penis is surgically altered by circumcision, the sex act is astoundingly abnormalized for both the man and the woman on the receiving end of the penis. 

Since the typical American woman has experienced only circumcised intercourse, she doesn't realize that her pleasure is adversely affected, nor does she realize the extent to which she is displeasured.  She accepts the various negativities of circumcised intercourse as a normal part of having sex and simply tries to make the best of the situation, never realizing that her pleasure, responsiveness, and orgasmic capabilities are significantly compromised.  Sadly, the sex act may often leave a woman feeling frustrated, dissatisfied, and unfulfilled.  Never conceiving that his surgically altered penis is the real root of the problem, many American women have come to think that they are "frigid," or that perhaps something else is wrong with them.  When, in actuality, it's the fault of circumcision.

And regrettably, the negative effects of circumcision don't necessarily end at the sex organs.  The incompleteness, shortcomings, and dissatisfaction of circumcised intercourse can negatively impact the psychological attitude of one or both partners, which may lead to various degrees of relationship unhappiness, and marital bickering and discord.  (Although the partners may not realize that the true underlying cause is sexual—arguing, instead, about everything else under the sun.)  This can gradually erode the relationship and may eventually set the stage for divorce.  It is not just coincidental that the divorce rate in America is more than double that of Western European countries where men are not usually circumcised.

The above may seem like a drastic jump—from circumcision, to non-sexual arguments in the living room, to divorce court—but the book will open your eyes to how this tragic course of events can come about.  As a woman intimately involved with a circumcised man and wanting to maintain a successful marriage, this book could keep you from experiencing a great deal of unhappiness and pain in your life—and bring you much joy instead.

The information in this book will set you free.  And set your partner free.  Free to develop and experience a higher love for your partner, and he for you.  Free to experience your true sexuality and the overriding relationship happiness it will bring to your life.  For luckily, the miracle of foreskin restoration is now possible.  Not only is it possible, but it is about to capture America's consciousness and sweep us all off our feet by surprise.  More and more, as men begin to read and hear about restoration, they are choosing to "undo" their circumcision and become "uncircumcised" again.

Still, the idea of foreskin restoration may immediately strike you as strange and bizarre.  But as you come to realize the paramount importance of the foreskin to sexual pleasure (and the love bond that develops from sexual union), it will begin to seem a very reasonable and realistic solution for today's circumcised men (and the women they share their bed with).  As the sexual negativities of circumcision gain national notoriety—which is destined to happen, and is already happening—men will unquestionably want to restore.  And their female partners will be enthusiastically encouraging them to do so.  Through the promise of restoration, circumcised men, and their female partners, can resurrect the sexuality that was stolen from them and discover together the "born again" pleasures of sex as nature intended it.  Ultimately, the book will enrich the lives of millions by vastly improving the lovemaking experience of countless men and women, every time they have sex, and make love, re-cementing the love bond.

One riveting aspect of the book is the author's own tastefully erotic, dynamic story about her "circumcised experiences" and her discovery of the wonders of "natural sex."

Another fascinating chapter includes the personal stories of women who participated in the survey. 

Additional personal stories and scores of comments about all aspects of this fascinating topic are frequently interspersed throughout the explanatory text, adding spice and a sense of secret exposé that make for captivating reading.  You're sure to find a certain satisfaction in peeking into the intimate sexual experiences and love relationships of these women who tell it like it is.  Below is a sampling of the kinds of comments that appear in this tell-all book.

"My natural partner kept more constant contact and pressure on my whole genital area during intercourse, so I never felt like he was 'banging away' but that he was with me and pleasuring me."

"I hear a lot of women saying they think a natural penis is ugly and wouldn't want to have sex with one, but they've never tried it.  I felt that way too before I had sex with a natural man."

"With circumcised, when the man is too forceful with his thrusting I lose all sense of feeling.  The glans of the circumcised male feels rough, and the shaft is too hard, unnatural.  It is not the same as with a natural penis."

"My sexual experiences with three natural men were extraordinary in the gentleness, sensuality, and mutuality of the experience."

"There is much more tenderness, [during natural intercourse] it's much more a joint experience rather than one-sided."

You won't find a boring page in this thought-provoking book.  And you will be pleased to learn that there is a natural, comfortable sexual position that virtually guarantees vaginal orgasm 99.99% of the time.  Also, the book reveals a simple sexual secret that can virtually eliminate premature ejaculation.  These two secrets alone are worth 1000 times the price of the book.

Written in an easy to understand language and style, infused with the passion of a poet's heart, the truth of nature proclaimed in this landmark 20-chapter book is destined to become one of the most important women's issues of our time as it lights the twin revolutionary fires of greater sexual quality/equality, and greater love between the sexes.

Sex As Nature Intended It: The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About Making Love But No One Could Tell You Until Now is one of the most important books you will ever read in your life.

The aforementioned survey of women—women who have had sexual experience with both types of penises—unearthed many mind-boggling revelations.   click here to continue reading...